(socially appropriate, non-crass how to ask chicks to rest to you)
updated: March 17 2019 – haha – “Netflix and Chill” was originally our ‘idea’, nevertheless now it is mainstream!
If you should be home with this Saturday night, it better be together with your fuckbuddy half-naked next to you whilst you both read Good Looking Loser. I invested so many Saturday evenings in the home in my 20’s. We be sorry too.
If you can’t communicate with girls through the night, just venture out and view when you can make attention contact a fantastic read (+ laugh) with girls or go view other guys communicate with random girls have a look at our program. Even though you do not state a word the complete time – it is better for your “game” than reading my disgraceful creepy weblog.
Used to do a video clip (see below) and was not going to perform a post with this ‘common sense’ topic but I decided it had been an idea that is good everyone else see this.
Guys that “research” sex/dating in the Web often experience ‘information overload’ and literally freeze up throughout their interactions or don’t know where to find down where in fact the girls appears.
They likewise have taken in a lot of “game” disinformation that Good Looking Loser is individually responsible for reversing.
I’m certain you have seen those “Asking 100 Girls For Intercourse” or “Will You have intercourse beside me?” viral YouTube videos where a man asks 100 girls when they will rest with him. Frequently he asks the question while the very initial thing he claims.
For example –
(do not bother watching these in complete)
The girls see the camera, in some cases not in some cases. That does not really matter.
The outcomes are the same in every the videos –
>98% of this girls state “No.”
Here are the two methods –
Table of Contents
0:00 The YouTube “social experiments” – what do they mean?
1:45 Verbal vs. physical screening (physical will ALWAYS get you further, faster)
4:15 “can you like to get together for a glass or two ?” “Lets grab a drink tonight.”
(try not to recommend it is a date or coffee)
5:45 Logistical concerns – where guys that nail 50+ girls via cold approach
7:25 “can you want to come over and watch a film ?” “You should drop by and now we’ll view a film .”
8:20 “Normal” dudes that Get Laid a great deal use both of these ALL THE TIME.
9:45 Stupid egghead rebuttal: “seeking rapport/asking concerns” is wrong.
11:20 A note on simply how much “game” actually matters.
12:00 which can be better? Verbal or stuff that is physical?
12:45 getting faster utilizing the physical material.
15:00 utilize both: ask girl to generally meet for a glass or two, then her to come over for the movie/drink.
# 1 Offer to generally meet for a Drink
(“You need to grab a drink tonight? Lets do this.”)
This proposition, among guys that obtain a lot of pussy, could be the solitary most utilized line into the history of the world.
Every woman within the world (unless you REALLY seem like boyfriend product) knows this will be an invite for future intercourse.
It will be the universal, polite, socially acceptable invite for sex.
If you are wanting to get Laid, it is a better alternative than asking a girl to “dinner” so she begins taking a look at you as a possible boyfriend and withholds her pussy until such time you are emotionally invested which means you don’t believe she is a slut.
Even the minority of apprehensive girls that think “he’s probably just trying to get me drunk”, will ironically totally enable you to achieve this – if they’re sexually available and DTF.
Lots of guys are frightened to utilize this proposition given that it’s “overused” or “too normal”.
Which is absurd, the need to be creative/witty is in fact insecurity and social inexperience.
(i am there, trust in me)
Other people are afraid that girls will think “this guy really wants to rape me”.
Emotionally healthier girls WILL NOT BELIEVE.
Simply trust me on this 1 too.
A DTF girl will likely not turn down a polite invite to obtain a glass or two if she likes you with you.
I totally encourage you to definitely make use of this proposition EACH AND EVERY TIME before you are taking a lady’s number.
number 2 Offer to look at a Movie/Hangout (at your home)
(“the trend is to drop by and we’ll grab/watch a movie and hang out?” tonight)
If “grabbing a drink” is the # 1 proposition of all-time, “watch a movie/hangout” is #1b.
It might be #1 actually, it’s this that every person who Gets Laid in university uses if they aren’t at events.
(but it is usually the ‘after party’ pretense)
Just like the prior proposition, girls understand “watch a film” become an invite for intercourse (or at least some form of messing around).
The”watch a movie/hangout” proposition is socially acceptable, polite and not too forward like”getting a drink.
Perhaps it’s obvious you are proposing to “watch a movie”, “pick up a film” (spend time) and not “see a movie” or “go to a film” (date).
Make that clear.
(it often is when you say “hangout”)
The invite is a socially appropriate excuse for the lady to come over and fuss – whenever you want.
On a more traditional date) you can use this pretense to get the girl to come over afterward if you are “getting a drink” with a girl (or find yourself.
All girls know very well what this means.
Girls know this and certainly will come over looking way hotter than when they were simply planning to view a film.
A “movie/hangout” may be the universal way that is socially acceptable getting a lady to come over, but these alternatives are appropriate too –
Come over and we also’ll chill.
Come over and now we’ll earn some food while having some drinks.
Come over so we’ll just chill within the hot spa.
Come over and then we’ll smoke weed.
Come over and we also’ll do a little blow.
These pretenses are not necessarily necessary once you’ve fucked the lady and she actually is your fuckbuddy (simply tell/ask her to come over) – but could be of good use.
Its not necessary virtually any pretenses than those 2.
How/Why Does This “Work”!?
As the woman likes both you and would like to have sexual intercourse with you.
She actually is usually just waiting around for the chance to do this.
Ideally, the lady should ALREADY FULLY KNOW what you are looking (intercourse, not just a girlfriend) for whenever you meet her, however these propositions will keep without doubt.
This is why that I do not have confidence in trash like “text game” or “working on” girls when you meet them. Even yet in the instances that are small it might appear to operate, it is hardly efficient and odds are – the lady ALREADY liked you.
The next occasion you intend to communicate (verbally) that you would like to fall asleep with her and desire to know where she appears – simply recommend a “drink” or “movie/hangout”.
You’ll receive your answer.
If you aren’t comfortable being physical with girls although I encourage, physical screening (a little goes a long way, especially during the day), this type of “verbal screening” is a nice way to get to the point.
(nevertheless – try to get confident with it, verbal testing won’t ever be as effective as real assessment + small talk)
Once per week, somebody asks getting a lady to come over or wonders the way in which to step a”hang up out” in the place of a romantic date.
Then that’s good news if this was common sense to you (therefore you should have ALREADY have experience using these pretenses at least 20-30 times.
It’s likely that – you have got recently been Laid that is getting and this tied up some free ends.
If it had beenn’t wise practice, at this point you have actually the perfect answer to –
Just What do i actually do to generally meet (rather than date) a lady?
This really is as effortless you- she will jump at the chance to get a drink/movie and chill with you as it gets and when a girl likes.